can straight girls please stop shitting their pants over being mistaken for lesbians or being called lesbians as an insult?
when someone tries to insult you by calling you a lesbian, they’re a homophobe. if you actually find it insulting to be called a lesbian, you’re a homophobe too. this is not a difficult concept to grasp.
I’m actually asexual, but given my looks I get mistaken for someone’s lesbian stereotype. And usually it’s when I’m with my sister (because we actually look nothing alike). And I’m always half-tempted to say “aww thanks for noticing” or “so you’re telling me you think lesbians are big on incest? Shame on you”
But 9 times out of 10 it’s some old white woman and I don’t want to give somebody’s grandmother a heart attack.